Fear can't win because we grow to understand our opponent and that fear fades. Hate doesn't win because it's impossible to sustain. 'I bet I can turn you on.' 'You just haven't been with the right person.' 'You just haven't been with a real man.'Īnd love wins because it's the only thing that can. They think it's impossible that a young woman doesn't want sex. But that assumes that they believe me, most people don't believe that I exist. The most I get called is 'nun', 'dead' and 'defective'. It's when they try to tell other people that one marriage devalues another or tell them that they shouldn't be allowed families or visitation when their loved one is in the hospital that we have a problem.Īs an asexual, most people aren't going to infringe on me because I just want to be left alone.
